Please Promote Qualified Presenter, about: Build Dedicated Server

I want to build Dedicated Server

Using my IP,
No 3rd parties,
No assets,
Create Sessions (Host, Join and Quit).

*Play with Friends wherever they live, or testing for Developers wherever they live.

I come cross some of youtubers, they are missing alot of explanations.

1-They fix the problems they make in the video without showing us HOW.

2-They got a way to do them steps but with recent UE that way is not available anymore you need to do it from other way.

3-Using 3rd parties like amazon, steam or others, on each 3rd parties you will get tons of errors, issues and problems.

3A - Like amazon first bad thing you can’t get sms code from them, I’m trying to get sms from 2019 and now we are in 2021.

3B - Steam, its not gonna work if your friend live in other side of the world.

3C - Other 3rd parties with other bugs and error.

I don’t want 3rd Parties, ME & UE only.

Please if you know any Qualified Presenter got a video send it here.

I found this one:

but on 10:45 how did he got folder \Win64 ??

if I will package new project I will get this folder, but when I’m following all his steps I don’t get the Win64 folder.

I repeat everything 3 times, still cant get the Win64 folder.

what did I miss or what did he forget to tell?

I found 2nd one:

1- How to create online games #1, build listen server / Unreal Engine 4 tutorial series - YouTube

14:37; He don’t have character, but I still got my character.

2-How to create online games #2, compilation dedicated server / Unreal Engine 4 tutorial series - YouTube

13:01; I cant find UE4Editor.exe, I download Source Code from https://github.com/EpicGames/UnrealEngine/tree/4.26
so if I’ll download from his url that will cost me monthly payment for him 50$ on patreon.
Finally I got UE4Editor.exe on 3rd build.

18:38; His game started stright away, but my game can not, start a window of unreal engine and freeze for 30 minutes, then my project open and start compiling 5k shaders.

24:25; He wait 7 minutes, but in my project it’s just 1 minute and 35 Seconds.

27:29; He got File Modification Detected Box in VS, But I dont get anything.

29:13; He compiled it within 10 minutes maybe, but mine take 2 hours and 48 minutes.

32:05; He do not get any errors, but I got this error [0]LogStreaming: Error: Could not find outer RobotoDistanceField to create RobotoDistanceField_PageA

someone! please help