Goes the unreal engine 3 free for mac or only PC?

It is with UDK.

I can’t find anywhere to download UDK for mac anywhere

There is no download for mac, you have to use a VM

The Unreal Engine 3 editor (UDK) only runs on PC.

The Unreal Engine 4 editor runs on PC, Mac, and linux through the community contribution.

We would highly recommend using UE4, This website is dedicated to UE4 support.